Dara, the wife of popular Nigerian businessman Lande, has publicly accused her husband of domestic violence, financial irresponsibility, and a gambling addiction that has allegedly put a strain on their marriage.
In a shocking revelation shared on social media, Dara opened up about the difficulties she has faced since marrying Lande, accusing him of using large sums of money to play the controversial online gambling game, Aviator, and exhibiting violent behavior.In a heartfelt statement, Dara recounted her struggles, stating that Lande, who was financially unstable when they first met, has now developed a destructive gambling habit that has worsened over time. According to Dara, her husband would regularly spend exorbitant amounts of money, including up to 2 million naira at a time, to play Aviator, a popular online betting game.
“I married Lande when he had no money. He was struggling, and we were building together. But over time, his addiction to gambling took over. He spends all his money on betting and has nothing left for us or the home. He can play as much as 2 million naira at once on that Aviator game. It’s insane,” Dara revealed. “I’ve tried to get him to stop, but nothing changes. He doesn’t care about the consequences."
But the allegations did not stop there. Dara went on to describe instances of physical abuse, claiming that Lande’s temper had escalated to the point where he became physically violent with her. “One day, he beat me to a stupor and tore my clothes. It was so bad that I couldn’t even move properly after. His anger issues have been a constant source of pain in my life,” she tearfully recounted.
Dara further expressed her frustration with the situation, explaining how she had tried to help Lande get help for both his gambling and anger issues but to no avail. "I have begged him to get help. I’ve asked him to go to therapy and counseling, but he always refuses," she said. "I’ve tried everything to save our marriage, but nothing works. I am scared and tired of living like this."
The revelations have shocked many, particularly Lande's fans and followers, who have long admired his business acumen and public persona. While Lande has not publicly responded to the accusations, the allegations have sparked a debate about gambling addiction, domestic violence, and the need for mental health awareness in Nigeria.
The story has since gone viral, with Nigerians expressing outrage and sympathy for Dara. Many have shown support for her, condemning domestic violence and gambling addiction. Some social media users have also shared their own experiences with abusive relationships and the challenges of dealing with partners struggling with addiction.
"Domestic violence is never okay, no matter the situation. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be for Dara," one Twitter user wrote. "No woman deserves to be treated like this. I hope she gets the support she needs and leaves this toxic relationship."
Others have called for more awareness and conversation around gambling addiction, which has been an increasing concern in Nigeria, especially with the rise of online gambling platforms. "Gambling addiction is a real issue that people don’t talk about enough," another commenter said. "It ruins families and lives. I hope Lande gets the help he needs."
The allegations raised by Dara shine a light on two serious issues that are increasingly affecting Nigerian families: gambling addiction and domestic abuse. While gambling has become more accessible in recent years, with many Nigerians now engaging in online betting, the impact of addiction is often overlooked. Similarly, domestic violence remains a significant problem, with many victims, particularly women, unable to speak out due to fear of stigmatization and lack of support.
Experts have called for greater education on responsible gambling and more resources for individuals and families affected by domestic violence. "These are not isolated issues, and they require urgent attention," said a mental health counselor based in Lagos. "It’s crucial that we create safe spaces for people to speak out and get the help they need."
As the situation unfolds, many are hoping that Dara’s courage in sharing her story will encourage others in similar situations to seek help. It is also hoped that the public outcry will lead to increased awareness of gambling addiction and domestic abuse in Nigeria, and greater support for individuals affected by these issues.
While Lande has not yet made a public statement on the matter, the pressure is mounting for him to address the allegations and for both partners to seek help in order to rebuild their lives and relationships. For now, the focus remains on Dara's well-being, as Nigerians continue to rally behind her in support.
