In the wake of the viral news surrounding the reconciliation between Asake and his father, popular Nigerian musician Wizkid's bodyguard, Roy, has weighed in on the ongoing debate, offering a thought-provoking message to men about the importance of self-care and emotional well-being.
The father-son saga, which has sparked mixed reactions from Nigerians, saw Asake’s father publicly express gratitude for his son’s support after years of estrangement. Asake reportedly took care of his father’s hospital bills and promised to buy him a house in Lagos Island, a gesture that many have praised, while others raised questions about the timing of the father’s involvement in his son’s life.
In response to the public outcry and the intense conversations surrounding family dynamics, Roy took to his social media platforms to share an empowering message for men, encouraging them to prioritize their mental health, emotional well-being, and personal growth.
“Men, it’s okay to not have everything figured out. It’s okay to go through struggles, and it’s okay to take care of your mind and emotions. We don’t talk enough about how important it is for men to invest in their well-being, especially when it comes to dealing with family dynamics,” Roy said in an Instagram post. “This Asake and his dad saga reminds us that self-care goes beyond just physical fitness. It’s about healing, forgiving, and making sure you’re emotionally and mentally strong to make decisions that are best for you.”
Roy’s message resonated with many Nigerians, particularly men who often feel societal pressure to remain strong and stoic in the face of personal challenges. The bodyguard emphasized that self-care for men includes not only physical health but also the mental and emotional space needed to navigate complex relationships, such as those with family members.
“As men, we need to stop bottling up emotions and pretending everything is okay when it’s not,” he continued. “Asake’s decision to support his father is a personal choice. Whatever happened in the past doesn’t define his future. But more importantly, we need to focus on taking care of ourselves so we can make those decisions with a clear mind.”
The post quickly gained traction, with many men in the comment section applauding Roy for shedding light on the importance of emotional wellness. Some users shared their own stories of reconciling with estranged family members or facing tough decisions about relationships, while others expressed gratitude for the reminder to prioritize their mental health.
“Thank you, Roy. Men sometimes get caught up in the idea that they have to handle everything alone and be strong all the time. We forget that taking care of ourselves, emotionally and mentally, is just as important as any other aspect of our lives,” one user commented.
Others, however, tied Roy’s message to the wider discussion surrounding Asake and his father. Some argued that men who experience strained relationships with their parents often carry emotional burdens that they may not know how to navigate. “The whole Asake situation is a reminder that people have their battles, and you never know what someone is going through,” said another commenter. “Roy’s words are a wake-up call for men to focus on healing, not just on what society expects of them.”
As the conversation continues to evolve, Roy’s advice has contributed to an ongoing dialogue about the importance of self-care, emotional healing, and the complexity of family relationships, especially for men. It also raises awareness that personal growth and well-being are crucial elements in making decisions that reflect one's true feelings and desires.
In light of this, many Nigerians are hopeful that the Asake and his father’s story will not only inspire personal reconciliation but also encourage others to reflect on their own emotional health and familial relationships.
